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Communicating With Your Kids About Your Divorce or Separation

Help for anticipating your kids' needs during the initial stages of a divorce or separation.
What Do I Tell My Child About Her Absent Father?
Absent fathers and mothers can be difficult to talk about. However, the children left behind by those parents often have many questions, and you want to be able to provide a reasonable explanation for their absence, while also being honest and fair. This FAQ includes sample wording you can use and also addresses the issue of bashing an absent parent.
Review of My To Homes, by Susan Magsamen
My Two Homes is a book for parents and children to read together as they navigate the adjustments they must go through in transitioning from one home to two homes. Written by Susan Magsamen, My Two Homes includes a separate binder for recording all of the important details that need to be shared as kids transition back and forth between mom's house and dad's house.
How Talk With Your Kids About Your Divorce, Separation, or Why You Never Married
Learn how to talk with your kids about divorce. Find out what you should and shouldn't do when talking about your situation with your kids, whether you're answering their questions about your divorce, separation, or why you never married.
How to Apologize to Your Kids
Apologies are powerful. They tear down defensive walls and help us to really communicate with one another. Learn how to apologize to your kids, when needed, with these practical tips.
Stages of Grief in Children
The way children deal with and express grief can be different from the stages of grief that we recognize as adults. Find out what the stages of grief look like in children, and what you can do to help your child cope with grief.
Quality Time is What Matters Most to Your Kids
Quality time with mom or dad matters so much more to your kids than material possessions. While you may be tempted to shower them with gifts when you can to show them your affection, remember that quality time spent in active play together is what your kids really crave.
Mailing Gifts and Packages to Your Kids
When you're apart from your kids for holidays and birthdays, you'll want to send them an extra special, creative package in the mail. Here are some tips for making the package extra fun to open.
What Questions Will My Kids Have About the Parent Who is Moving Out?
Your kids will have many questions about the departing parent. First and foremost, they're going to want to know where he or she will be living, and how and when to expect regular contact together. Here's a list of questions you can expect your kids to ask.
Questions Your Kids Ask When You Announce the Divorce
Your kids will have many questions when you announce your divorce or separation. First and foremost, they're going to want to know how the divorce will affect them personally. Here's a list of questions you can anticipate.
Things to Consider When You Tell Your Kids About Your Divorce or Separation
Be prepared to communicate with your children about your upcoming divorce or separation. Work out a plan with your former partner ahead of time, and anticipate the questions your kids will have. Includes specific guidelines for telling the kids.

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